Wedding Series: What We Wore

Happy Wednesday (almost Thursday) everyone! Today, we are continuing our wedding series and I want to talk about everything we wore for the wedding!

So I am just gonna get right into it…

Let’s start with the big one…my wedding dress! Quick little backstory, this dress was SO DIFFICULT to find! Oh my gosh. I always knew I wanted to wear a long sleeve, all lace dress on my wedding day. For some reason, it was so hard to find one that I liked. Then I was on Instagram one day and saw that this couple I knew from high school got married and her dress was EVERYTHING. I was not friends with her on Instagram at the time, but I was with her sister so I reached out to her and asked where her wedding dress was from and she told me Luv Bridal.

I immediately started looking on their website and found a few that I really liked, including this one!

Unfortunately, since the wedding was only a few months away, we did not have time to order the dress in my size so I had to get one off-the-shelf. The smallest they had the dress was a size 4 (I am a 0) but after trying it on, I was in LOVE and it could definitely be altered to fit me!

The dress itself ended up costing a little over $1000 and alterations were $500 so we ended up spending around $1500 for my dream dress!

Next up, our bridesmaid’s dresses! Okay, so on my last post, I told you a fun fact about these dresses. I HATED them. Okay, maybe hate is a little strong but I was not that happy about them. Originally, I wanted these gold dresses with open-backs but unfortunately, we could not go with those and I won’t get into detail about why but honestly, I was so broken hearted over it.

I spent FOREVER looking for other dresses and you guys know, I am picky! It took me longer to find bridesmaid dresses than it did to find MY wedding dress. I looked EVERYWHERE. Finally, I found these ones from Lulu’s. They were $70 each and are still available online if you do like them. Alterations were around $30 but the only alterations were to add fabric to the cleavage area and sew the slit down more so it wasn’t as high.

I DO NOT like the alterations that were made what-so-ever and I actually cried when I saw the dresses in person.

At the end of the day, it is what it is and I was very happy with the wedding. Also, my bridesmaids did make the dresses work because they are all so gorgeous but if I had to do it all over again, I would get the dresses I originally wanted.

Now I want to talk about the girl’s accessories. I had my amazing florist make the flower crowns for each of the girls and I loved that they made the dresses look better! Since the dresses were long, I had the girls wear whatever shoes that they were comfortable with (as long as you couldn’t see them). They were allowed to wear any jewelry they pleased and I also gifted them with the cutest little “knot bracelets”. I will post a picture of them below!

Moving onto the boys! Jaden’s suit is from Men’s Warehouse. We ended up just renting his but Jaden was not happy with it and honestly, I wish we would have just bought a suit and had it custom fitted for him because he did not feel good in his rental one. (I think he looks cute but I wish he would have felt that way!).

We asked the boys to wear a white button-up shirt (which was easy because all of our boys are members of The Church of Jesus Christ!), navy blue slacks, and brown shoes. The ties, I purchased from a local tie shop and they were super cheap and matched the dresses perfectly! I do wish we would have told the boys to all wear brown belts but hey, what do ya do!

And last but certainly not least…our shoes! Jaden’s were just apart of his rental suit. Mine…are simply my favorite shoes in the world and I love them so much that I still find any excuse to wear them!

My shoes here are Christian Louboutins! Specifically, they are the Pigalle 85mm Nude Patent Leather Pumps. They are $695 and they were a wedding gift from my parents! I have to admit, that when the reception started, I did change into my sandals but that is because I did not break them in enough for the wedding. Now, I can wear these bad boys for hours and even dance in them (I wear them to weddings a lot)!

I love them so so SO much and I am so happy that my photographer got this cute shot of our shoes!

Jaden’s shoes were also rented with his suit.

Alright, I think that is pretty much everything! In future posts, I plan to talk about our wedding rings, our schedule and maybe a honeymoon post so stay tuned for all of that! Make sure you are following me on my Instagram (click here to follow me!) and/or subscribe using your email on the side of this page to be notified when new posts are up. See you all on Friday for a new Friday Favorites post!

Wedding Series: Tips for Planning a Wedding

Happy Tuesday! So something that has been so highly requested since I got married is to share all about my wedding. How I planned it, where I bought my dress, what we did for food, etc…

I had planned on doing a series of YouTube videos back in 2017 when I got married but since I got pregnant shortly after the wedding, I just was not in the mood to film OR blog. Although Jaden and I have been married for almost 2 years now, people are still asking me to do wedding posts so here I am!

I figured these posts could help a lot for those who are planning a wedding or just want to be prepared when they eventually start that process. For me, I was planning my wedding long before Jaden even proposed because I already knew I was going to marry him only a few months into dating. When ya know, ya know, am I right?

To start off this wedding series, I want to share some tips to begin wedding planning. After all, this is one of the biggest days of your life so you want to start planning and get all the advice you can as soon as you get engaged!

Buy a Wedding Planner or Binder & Notebook

Kate Spade New York Bridal Collection Wedding Planner – $48 (Dillards)

One of the first things I did when I got engaged was buy a planner. The one pictured above is the exact one that I purchased and used and boy, was it a lifesaver! It is the size of a regular binder and comes with pages for pretty much everything you need. For example, a budget page, timeline, to-do lists, a page to fill out songs for the DJ, guest list and so much more! It was SO helpful but if you don’t want to pay for that, you can always buy a regular binder and fill it with notebook paper. You can even print off templates online that you can stick in there that are similar to the pages I talked about in the Kate Spade binder. 

This binder will be your wedding’s lifeline, believe me. You will take that thing everywhere and constantly be looking at it!

Figure Out a Timeline and Budget

Depending on how long you have to plan the wedding, your timeline will always vary from those you find online. I got engaged in April and we had our wedding in October so that gave us about 6 months to plan which, in wedding time, is not a lot of time! In my Kate Spade planner, it had a timeline page that was for a span of 1 year, but it still worked for me! I just moved everything up a bit. 

There is also a budget page to help plan out how much you want to spend on things for the wedding. This is SO important because weddings are not cheap AT ALL and you definitely want to be mindful of how much you can spend. 

Typically, the things that will be the costliest are:

-Venue

-Food/Catering (ESPECIALLY if you plan to serve alcohol, but we did not have alcohol at our wedding as a personal choice)

-Dress

-Flowers/Decor

Get All the Quotes You Can and Use People that Network Together

This next tip goes hand in hand with the last one. Since budgeting is important, I advise you not to go with the first person/company you find. Definitely get quotes and ask around! My mom says her rule of thumb is “always get three quotes” and I think that is genius! 

Also, use people/companies that network with each other! So our Photographer shot our engagement photos and our wedding photos (she’s basically my family’s photographer now because we love her so much!) and she knows our florist. It was nice to have people we were already working with recommend other people that they knew to work with us on other parts of the wedding. You can always trust those that do weddings a lot too because they knew who to recommend and sometimes they offer deals when you go with people they recommend to you.

Start a Wedding Website

I started a website using Minted because it is free and super easy to use! The wedding website is more for your guests but it is so helpful for them because you put everything on that bad boy! You will be able to link your registries here (we were registered at Target and Amazon), people can RSVP through there, if you have people from out of town coming, you can link all of the info so they can book rooms, you can also post details about the wedding and where it will be and so much more! It is really nice to have that website so that guests can just go there to find all the info instead of having to text you about it because you’re already busy enough!

To Save on Food…Have Food Trucks!

When we went to our venue, the woman who helped us plan at the venue recommended using Food Trucks to cater the wedding and it was honestly one of our favorite things about our wedding! In our town, we have what is called “Food Truck Friday” where all these food trucks lineup and people can come to eat and have a good time. We went there and tried out different ones and then got the info for our favorite ones. Then, we went home and reached out to the owners to get quotes for our wedding. In the end, we saved a lot by doing Food Trucks instead of traditional catering and our guests LOVED it! We had 4 trucks total, one soda truck for drinks, a pizza truck, a burger truck and a donut truck for dessert. 

To this day, our family and friends talk about how cool the food trucks were. It was a HIT!

Complete a Wedding Day Timeline and Give This to Your Whole Wedding Party

This is one of my favorite tips because I like knowing that everyone is on the same page. I am pretty sure my in-laws think I am crazy because I handed everyone wedding day timelines but it was because I NEEDED everyone to be aware of what was happening and when! Once I solidified a timeline, I made copies for everyone in the wedding party that had a very detailed timeline of the wedding so they knew when to be there and when everything was going to happen. It was a big help because no one had to stand around wondering what they should be doing or what was going to happen next because it was all in my 3 page packet! 

Assign the Wedding Party Jobs to Help Keep the Wedding Going

This is yours and your partner’s big day and you have been putting your blood, sweat and tears into this thing so when that day finally comes, you deserve to just enjoy it! My family, as you can probably tell, is SUPER helpful. They were always asking what they could do to ease the load off me. I decided to give my wedding party little jobs here and there to help move the wedding along. Especially when it came to the timeline! I had to have people that would follow the timeline and push everyone else into following it too. My parents were the best because they were always in the background making sure everything was taken care of! 

Always Do What YOU Want To Do

Like I said earlier, this is YOURS and YOUR PARTNER’S big day! No one else’s! One of my biggest regrets when planning my wedding was worrying so much about everyone else and what they would like. This isn’t their wedding!

One of my husband and I’s biggest fights ever was over bridesmaids dresses. Yes. Our. Freaking. Bridesmaids. Dresses. I won’t go into detail about the argument but let’s just say…in the end, I went with dresses I absolutely DESPISED rather that the one’s I wanted simply because I was trying to be considerate about my bridesmaids and what they wanted to wear. Obviously, everything turned out fine and in the big picture, the dresses were fine BUT I still wish I would have just went with the dresses I wanted because they were so much cuter and more my style!

Now, when I talk to my sisters and sister-in-laws, they all say they would have worn whatever I asked them too and I’m like AHH! Don’t tell me that! 

Don’t Spend Too Much On These Things

Since weddings are so pricey, here are some things I wouldn’t spend too much time or money on…

-Invitations. These do not need to be super fancy and expensive. After the wedding is over, guests will throw them straight into the trash so it is not worth overthinking and overspending. Vistaprint had great deals on invitations that are cute but simple!

-Hair & Makeup. This is definitely just a personal opinion. I did my own hair and makeup and so did my bridesmaids. It helps when all your bridesmaids are gorgeous too! I also watched A TON of hair and makeup tutorials on YouTube so that helped a lot!

-Cake. Don’t hate me cake people! Here’s the thing, cake is good. But there are other alternatives that I have found that guests seem to like better. For our wedding, we had a small cake just for my hubby and I. For our guests, we had cake pops made and they were a hit! It was SO much easier to hand out and way more convenient for guests. 

So there you have it! All of my best wedding tips! I will be posting more wedding related posts soon so make sure you subscribe by email and follow me on Instagram! Both of those can be found in the sidebar.